Sunday, January 22, 2012

What did she try to tell me?

After I finished a business meeting with other colleagues, I stayed working alone at the conference room, which is a little far away from my cubicle. Then, a female co-worker started ping by. She has flirted a little bit with me in the past. I have flrited with her as well. We have even had a casual dinner once a few weeks ago, but nothing happened. I decided that I was not going to ask her out again. One of the times when she was ping by, she found me alone so she stopped at the door and asked me "where is Mr. (name)?". I responded "I don't know, why?". She said "''cause I'd like to ask him some questions regarding (a work affair)". Then I changed the subject and continued talking. Then I asked her "what are you going to do this weekend?". Her reaction was as a surprise. She said "nothing, maybe I'm gonna read a book, my best female friend has written a book about me, she says I'm a crazy person". I said "what?". She continued "well, remember I told you about this past relationship that I had a couple of years ago, we were part of a group (the ex bf and her best female friend), we used to go out, etc, now she lives in another country, she knows me very well, she says I'm too emotional, she also is saying that because of my French background I am a pionate woman". I asked her "do you consider yourself a pionate woman?". She nod her head and said "no, I don't think so, but I think she says it because that is one of the stereotypes of the French people". Then a few colleagues approached me and the conversation was ended. What did she really mean for all the things that she told me?

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