I know this sounds stupid again but I'm having a friend problem.?

Chill !! Her copying you is a VERY big compliment.. I know you want to be an individual, but she looks up to you, and wants to be as strong and self ured as you...just like you.. You could try gently and kindly suggesting that with her skin tone and eye color, she may want to try a certain look... She sounds like she is trying to find herself, her own style.... You have found yours, and she is still looking.... If you value the friendship, help her out here... Use your eye for style and teach her.... You CAN do this !!! Be the true leader and show her what would look best for her... A little kindness goes a LONG way !!!